I remember joining a company and because I was new everyone wanted to get to know me. It really wasn't that they really wanted to get to know me...they wanted to know what I knew.
I wanted to be great but the funny thing to me was everything was top secret. "Don't talk to that top producer they are just too busy!"
Often times they talked to me, to get me to open their houses or fax something to another company for them.
Why because I did not know any better.
Yes, I managed to learn how to use lock boxes, open drapes and lock up. they would call me to do these things...
I expected to see them in the office to only hear from them by phone again. Midori can you do this for me?
I hated real estate...and I was ready to quit.
Then one day, I was complaining to one of my friends he told me it's your environment..make a change.
To start over...yuck....
Then he said You are competing so don't expect them to share their trade secrets. If you can't make it on your own...you need to quit now! Harsh words...and darn some friend I had.
If I could be a grocery store manager and manage 60 people between the ages of 14 to 70 successfully....... I can do anything. After all I was raising three boys on my own and I am going to let real estate kick my butt???? NO WAY!
The following week I ran into an old friend...one of my grocery store buddies and it turned out he went into real estate too!
Funny thing, while I said how hard real estate was and how much I hated it...He had already closed several transactions..with a big smile on his face..he said...let me see if I can get you in..because in our company every associate makes money.
My ears perked up...I told him how I just finished Sweathogs and I was starting to see some things happening. Still no sale but a couple of listings.
After 3 weeks..he called me..."Go today to see my broker..one of the associates left and you might get in! I told him about you. Don't make an appointme
nt...just go in and see him."
I did just that. When I walked into the office, there were about 12 desks there.
One of the things I noticed was constant movement.
People in and out... I hope I would be sitting in one of the desks soon!
When I looked in the back..I was intimidated. The Broker....
We sat and chatted...he said he would have to think about it...
I didn't have enough experience but he told me if I was willing to learn the real estate business and take it serious he might give me a shot.
One last thing before I walked out, he told me to get a real estate car..you need 4 doors!
We parted shaking hands and he saying he'll call me.
I got in my car and cried, somehow someway I blew it! Maybe I'm not cut out for this profession!
Then it happened...the owner called.. if I would like to start..he will see me Monday Morning.. I was so happy and excited!
He would walk by me when I was on the phone and coached me...
My fellow associates would sit around role playing and practice screening leads with me.
We were very much in a real estate environment and everyone one of us took our career's very serious.
Luck would have it and I got a buyer my first week...lo and behold...I had to write a contract.
I got a copy of their driver's licenses and sent them off to get something to eat..
When I came back into the office...
I told everyone they wanted to write a contract and I had never written one before.
It was impressive..everyone in that office played in a role to get that contract written...written before the buyer returned from their meal.
Very different from the environment I came from and I was surprised..The broker understood if we were not making money..he wasn't going to make any either. He took the time and trained every associate..,
Success breeds Success.
If you are working in an office where real estate is top secret...it may not be you...but your environment...I don't know about you..but I'd say you better run!
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Midori,
You are so right, information is something to be shared as there are no magic systems just diligence and systems.
Take care!
RJH
That's great.
I worked for a Century 21 Franchise early in my career, and the BROKER was the one who acted like everything was a big secret. She didn't want the agents talking to each other. She said we were there to sell real estate, not to make friends. I never forgot that, and I knew that wasn't the environment I wanted to work in. I left shortly afterwards.
I emphasize to anyone wanting to associate with my brokerage, that WE work together. Yes, they are competitors, but they're also colleagues.
Good for you Midori. That's what I like about Royster Real Estate, everyone is so helpful andy my broker is constantly coaching me. It feels good to be in a positive environment.
Great post! It is amazing the difference in your attitude when you are around professionals who strive to sharpen their skills as opposed to whinning about their lot in life.
I have been in both offices & much prefer to be in one where people share ideas, encourage you to do your best & glad when you succeed...
Dianne Clayton
Hi Midori,
Nice to hear you were able to move into a more positive environment. Sweathogs haven't heard that term for quite a few years, good old Floyd Wickmam, and Mrs. Whijakowski (sp?) right?
Great Post !
Latley I have brokers wanting to meet with me.. maybe change is in the air ?
Midori-I want to comment on LaNita's comment about interviewing Brokers......I have interviewed everyone that works with me....there are some agents that I do not prefer to associate with. the know it alls!!!! Absolutely I interview and decide if someone can work with us, and I also ask all the other Agents if this is a good mix for Them.
I have found that all the people that say they are making ME a bunch of money are usually the ones that need the most assistance, or cause the most turmoil in the Office......The Broker has to worry about legal liability in everything......and I for one do not want someone that I feel has a higher than average chance of getting us sued. Also I detest a know it all attitude, and people that put others down with I am a top producer......
Reminds me of the people just graduating from college with a BA degree thinking they deserve to be the President of the Co.......only to find out that a BA gets them an entry level job :)
Got to have a positive and helpful environment with team playing a must! Glad it all worked out for you because it seems you've been happy!
Midori - The Universe rewards generosity: first you give, then you receive. Your intentions are everything: when you share to make the world a better place to be, you receive more than you ever expected.
Great job! Make your community a better place to be - you will help all of us.
When I started everyone in my office helped me. I hated feeling like the new kid and not knowing the answers. The top agent in my office is also the top agent in our 4 counties so who better to learn from. She always helps me and I'm happy to say I won Rookie of the Year 2007. Now when new agents start, I know how they feel and I will help them to feel more confident. Thanks for a great post.
Midori: Isn't it great to be in a competitive environment where people are supportive! The best of both worlds!
Hi Everyone-Let me address a few issues...
Success breeds Success...its very contagious and very positive...we have our ups and downs BUT the upside is that when you are in an office and with the same goals in mind and you are rooting for each other...often times a solution will surface...suggestions...thoughts and ideas...
Now I have to address the independent contractor issue bottom line that is how you get paid!!! To me nothing more....nothing less...you have the freedom to work in the way that you like...but not every broker will endorse you! I find it very funny when someone throws this in my face...especially when they need me to help them with a problem...or they want to pick my brain for ideas or sit in one of my accountability programs...Give and take...both brokers and independent contractor's
Let me spell it out for those who have never ran their own company....these thoughts might help. A broker is responsible for your actions...for you words...and for your listings...they aren't your listings...nor your customer...plain and simple it's the brokers...so call yourself independent contractor's all you wish. Without the broker unless you become one...you won't be selling real estate legally....you need the broker!
I ran my own company and if we did not mesh business wise you were not a part of my organization plain and simple...While many of you think that you are interviewing the broker...bottom line is it has to be a good fit all the way around...does it makes sense and will this broker make me as successful as I want to be? Does the broker conduct business in the way I see myself doing it? Do I have enough respect for the broker to actually hang my license with them. As a broker do I have enough faith to spend all my time and energy on this independent contractor? Will they fit well with the other associates? What do they have to bring to the table...afterall you want marketing dollars??? What do you have to market? I could go on and on...
Brokers like yourselves have certain standards and If I do not live up to my end of the bargain...well BFN...
in my mind he wasn't telling me to get rid of my car..plain and simple it was a statement...and a very valid one...at the time I drove a sports car....
Every associate in his office was successful...he created his office that way...its was a privilege to work there...so many tried but I got in....so you can say...he doesn't have right..sure he does...because he believed enough in me to stick his neck out everytime I made a mistake..or had a question or needed to learn new systems...you are only as good as the people around you! I understood it and so did he.
Here is what I find disheartening about some associates...you complain you have no business but you don't like sales meetings...you don't like dressing in a manner that is professional and you know all! You are independent until you have a problem
That is disheartening....you may not think its important to participate or even get involved in company projects but the truth is your name is attached...regardless of whether you are an independent contractor or not.
I say until you walk a mile in a broker's shoes...careful in what you say...your broker might be reading this and may not be so gung ho to help you after-all you are an independent contractor aren't you???????????
great post. We are definitely in a buisness where you need to bring energy and creativity. Your coworkers are your competition, but can be the best reason for your success.
Midori- This post hit a chord with me. I too was in the same kind of office in the early days. OMG, and heard those exact words..."do not talk to the top producer he is much too busy".. and like you, I also thought about throwing in the towel. The straw that broke the camels back was when the Broker came in on a Sunday while I had assigned floor time and would not even say hello to me. She pretended to not even hear me greet her. Being a persistent little bugger, I walked up to her office and waited for a response. Instead of hello I got a curt "I am busy" from her. The first thing I thought of was... I am here on a Sunday (the only day our entire family can spend together) working as a receptionist for basically nothing. Hmmm. I returned to the "Pit" and didn't say another word.
The following week I left a note and key at the front desk. I realized the "fit" for me was just not there. It was not Real Estate I disliked, it was the office environment. Like you, I interviewed another Broker and not only did I get the job, my sales soared. Finally finding an office that felt "like home".
Great post Midori!
Great story, sometimes we get way too competitive. When we get competitive we stop the creative from flowing. I find that your story is all too common. In todays market people are starving and doing anything they can to get ahead of the agent next to them. What comes around - goes around.